How to Figure Out What Type of Job You Really Want

I am constantly asked at networking events about what I do and how do I help people become the best they can be.  Part of my services involves helping people understand their personality and their drivers, so they can find the best job that keeps them happy and satisfied.

If you are you considering a job change, but you keep putting it off for one reason or another, I urge you to read on. I hope to inspire you to take that next step.  

Usually, I find that most people think that they lack clear ideas for a job or career change that keeps them trapped in their current situation. What they are really lacking is the ability to think differently about what’s possible for them. And that’s where I come in. I can help you explore options that you never thought possible.

If you feel stuck, trapped, or unable to think of anything at all that might serve you in finding a new job or career, here are some tips to help you think differently about potential and practicality that could stir up a whole host of new ideas for you.

Ask yourself these questions to see what you might uncover:

What is it that you DON’T want to do?

Often, identifying what we don’t want can shine a light on what we do want, simply by considering the opposite. For example, if you absolutely hate commuting to work, working closer to home or even at home might be preferable. Now I know not everyone can work from home, but there are a lot more options out there since COVID hit. Even working from home a few days a week, might help you find something different.

Do you hate conforming to rules and regulations?

Maybe something that would allow you to work under your own initiative with your own ideas would be ideal. Like writing or working with your hands. Not all jobs have to be rules centric. Your passion might actually help you find your new career.

Are you putting yourself under pressure to conform to someone else’s perceived impression of you?

For example, do you have thoughts like these:

I should have a professional position.

I must have at least this much as a salary because of my education.

I should have a title that other people will respect and admire me for.

Deep in your heart, maybe you really want to build dry stone walls with your bare hands, on your own, out on the ranch, or work in a different profession that you were originally trained for.

Check your feelings to see whose rules you are actually following. You will never be happy unless you follow your own idea of what makes your heart sing. Are you really prepared to let others dictate how you should spend your life and make a living?

What if anything was possible? What would you do with your time?

Try thinking without restraint or limitation. What would you do if absolutely anything were possible?

Would you travel?

Would you build?

Would you create?

Would you buy and sell?

Where would you go?

Who would you go with?

How much time would you spend there?

How much money would you make?

What would you be like if you reinvented yourself completely?

If you could turn the clock back and unload all the junk that you’ve collected in your mind and heart so far in your life? If you could eliminate all the mistakes, errors of judgment, and wasted time of the past?

Where would you be and what would you be doing?

Who would you be doing it with?

Where would you be doing it and why?

What if you seized some of the opportunities you’ve turned down and refused some of the opportunities you’ve taken?

What would your life be like now? Where would you be? 

Who would you be with? 

What would you be doing? 

How does that feel?

What would this brand new you look like?

What kind of work would you be engaged in?

How much money might you be making?

How much joy would you have in your life?

 Where would you live? Why there?

Is this new you inspiring?

What if your new career wasn’t grandiose, world class, or life changing for anyone else?

Would that matter? What if it was modest, relatively inconspicuous, but incredibly important to your heart and soul?

Just because some ideas are bigger, it doesn’t automatically make them better. What you are searching for here is a perfect fit for you, not for someone else.

What if you could identify what you really want today?

Would you get started? Begin exploring? Begin making that transition from where you are right now to where you really want to be?

These are some of the thought provoking questions I would start with to really dig deep to really understand your ideal job. Then I would provide assistance on how to answer them.

Your life is waiting. What are you waiting for?