Being Grateful Does Wonders for the Soul

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Being Grateful Does Wonders for the Soul

Reflecting on my holiday last week, I am truly grateful for being able to travel in this beautiful country. I was able to catch up with old friends, family and new work colleagues. It made me truly thankful for being alive. So, when was the last time you said thank you for something as simple as being alive or being able to take breaks? Sounds silly, doesn’t it? Well, if you barely have time to appreciate what you have, how can you ever desire anything more?

Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can bring a positive change in our lives. It is the act of recognizing and appreciating the good things in our lives, big or small, and acknowledging the efforts of others who have helped us along the way. Being thankful for our life can help us to cultivate a positive mindset, improve our relationships, and enhance our overall well-being. In this article, we will explore why it is good to be thankful for your life, with a focus on gratitude, family, and friendships.

We all have something to be thankful for, even those who live a modest lifestyle by choice or by circumstance.  Focusing on material possessions, rather than on the very fact that we’re living and breathing, tend to make us forgetful of the greater gifts, such as our families and our health.

Life is a miracle and can be taken away in a moment’s notice. Regardless of your spiritual beliefs, there are many ways you can show your appreciation for your life. By practicing gratitude, we can shift our focus to the positive, which can help us to feel more content and fulfilled.

Gratitude can help us to overcome challenges. When we focus on the good things in our lives, we can feel more resilient and better equipped to handle difficult situations.

Gratitude can improve our relationships. When we express gratitude to others, it can strengthen our connection with them and enhance our sense of closeness.

Gratitude can increase our sense of purpose. When we recognize the good things in our lives, we can feel more fulfilled and motivated to pursue our goals.

Gratitude can improve our mental health. When we focus on the positive, it can reduce stress and anxiety and increase feelings of happiness and contentment.

5 Ways to Express Your Gratitude

Sometimes showing your gratitude can be as simple as saying “thanks,” but other times you can show gratitude by helping others, or “paying it forward.” After all, you’ll never know how a simple, kind gesture will affect someone’s day.

Here are some ideas to help you appreciate life while also helping others:

  1. Reach out to your extended family and friends. Send them cards just to say “Hi,” call or email them, or even throw a party to reconnect and show these people they’re important to you.
  1. Reflect on your life and your family. What sacrifices did your parents make for you? What struggles did the family endure? How is your life better or easier than that of your great-grandparents? How did these events make you the person you are today?
  1. Meditate, pray, or go to your place of worship. Find a quiet place to think about all that’s good – your health, family, or home – and simply say “thank you” to your Creator.
  1. Reconnect with your partner and/or children. Actions speak louder than words so turn off that television, stop scrolling and spend some quality time with your family just to have some fun! Whether it’s a surprise getaway or a family game night, renewing your relationships with your family will strengthen your bond and bring you closer together.
  1. Keep a journal. Write down all the things you’re grateful for in your life and reflect on all that is good. Even the simplest things – such as finding a parking space at the mall or locating your missing keys – are times to be grateful!

Just remember giving IS receiving!

When you give of yourself – either with a smile or another kind gesture – you receive the warm satisfaction of helping to make a difference in the world, one person at a time. Your uplifting attitude will be contagious, and you just might be the recipient of a random act of kindness!